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HOW DOES THE KORONA VIRUS AND THE QUARANTINE PROCESS DOUBLE RELATIONSHIPS?

"We had no problems with my wife before, because my wife is always at home because of coronavirus, our discussions have increased a lot. It seems that we will divorce with this trend," or

"I had never thought of getting married before, but my mind was completely changed. I hadn't been going to work for more than a month, I was alone at home, I never felt lonely when I went to work. But now I realized how hard it was to live alone. My ideas about marriage have completely changed, I definitely want to get married, "If you say this article is for you;

Now let's come to the question of whether the divorces will increase due to the first coronavirus.

Scientific studies show that a large number of divorces occur for simple reasons:

The main reason for this is that communication is more difficult in intense emotional relationships.

Now, considering the difficulties of being together 24 hours a day, the discussions are more clearly understood.

Most of the time, both sides have difficulties in explaining their problems to each other even though they have good intentions.

However, if both sides try to listen to each other from an empathetic point of view, everything will be easier.

So is it possible to be happy again in a relationship that has reached the stage of divorce?

Here are the steps to take:

1-) If communication has come to a breaking point, write a letter to your spouse and state that you are ready to listen to it, and that you have some mistakes in the problems that are experienced.

2-) Even if he accuses you of talking, try to understand him and listen until he finishes his word. Repeat once in a while to make sure you understand what you are saying right now.

3-) When it is your turn to speak, tell the wrong things in your marriage without judging and accusing.

4-) Explicitly state that you do not agree to change it and that you love it as it is.

5-) If you have to criticize, start your criticism by saying the positive sides first and never make generalizations like “You are always like this”.

6-) Say directly that he is valuable to you and that you love him without defrauding his word.

7-) Now, instead of thinking about divorce, it is time to try to overcome these difficult days. Even if you do nothing, it is better to show some tolerance.

In conclusion, I think that coronavirus will increase divorces if professional couple therapy is not taken, and marriages if pre-marital therapy is taken.

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