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When the word "border in the family" is said, many people may think of distance, distance. However, one of the most important common characteristics of healthy families is that there are correct boundaries both between family members and between the whole family and other people. So what do we mean by border? We each have a number of identity characteristics that distinguish us from other people and help us distinguish between "me" and "others". We are all different from each other in our feelings, thoughts, likes, goals, desires, who we are. The most important thing that makes us who we are is our differences. How well we can protect our differences and how much we can accept the differences of another is explained with the concept of border. It is important to define the boundaries correctly in order to have a healthy reconciliation environment within the family. It can be said that the golden key of a happy family is that the roles and boundaries between spouses, children and parents are clear and protected correctly. When we look at it, the ambiguity of roles and boundaries underlies many of the problems experienced between family members or with people outside the family. What is meant by roles and boundaries are situations such as which information, in which situations and how much will be shared with one another in mutual interaction, and in which areas, to what extent and who can interfere in another's life. Just because we do not like the thought, behavior or decision of another, intervening in that area will bring many conflicts. The better the roles and boundaries are drawn and protected in the family, the less arguments or resentments will be, and the more healthy communication will increase.

 

If you have problems with boundaries and roles in your family or in your human relations, you are making technical mistakes in many issues, and at this point, it is definitely time to seek professional help. You can reach me from my contact number +90533 373 81 23.